Should I do this? Should I do that?

This is something which is never discussed in the community “When should I go in for the kiss?” “Should I kino on the date?” “Should I leave it a day before texting?” Here are some techniques: Ping texts, kino ladder, qualification, disqualification, teasing, push-pull, time constraints, takeaways, tele-shagging, leading, rewarding good behaviour, statement of interest,…

“I run out of things to say…”

I get this a lot from students… “I don’t know what to say!” Bollocks. Let me unpack that curt reply. When guys approaching say “I ran out of things to say” what they mean is that they can’t think of anything to say. What’s the difference? That’s right. “Think”. Let me unpack that. What they…

This is not how I was brought up!!

Having been in this daygame malarky for about three years, it’s taken me a couple of thousand approaches, quitting and restarting about 10 times and about 15 nice sexy experiences to realise… This is not how I was brought up! I mean, seriously, even with all my success so far in this superb hobby (and…

An awakening? Or just another dream?

I’m posting this because I want to see where I am later on, if this is a fad, if I’m deluded or mad…. This may be completely gibberish to you. That’s fine, but I’d like to see how long this lasts! Is it about game? I don’t know. It’s about everything, so it’s about game….…

Frames, frames, frames frames frames*

To be said to the tune of “dreams” by Cliff Richard* An interesting observation from a recent lesson… I was with a student and was talking a little about frame control. The more I spoke the more it reminded me of times I’ve had to have a strong frame, e.g.: – The Italian who blew…