Take a look at the “PUA” forums and look how the “Outer Game” threads vastly outnumber the “Inner Game” discussions. This highlights the main sticking point with guys. Too much focus on what to do and how to do it, not enough on who to be.                …

Just a quick post, while replying to a student’s email, I came out with something that he said was a bit of a gem, so I share it here with you, I hope it might inspire someone, somewhere. It was in relation to failure: feeling like a failure, being afraid of failure… Go, fail, enjoy……