The Ultimate Seduction

Techniques are great, techniques are necessary… blueprints are needed. You have to replace your old bullshit with something, and the new bullshit is pretty good… for a while… It will get you some results, and that’s no bad thing. But after a while, you may begin to realise something… This first hit me a few…

Get dumb to get success

Most guys who get into this are intelligent. Really intelligent – analytical, educated – problem solvers. Crosswords, equations, Sudoku.  Indeed, in a society and culture which has an over-emphasis on the power of the neocortex in matters where it is a hindrance, they look to more thinking, more problem solving and using their mind to…

Blueprints are Bullshit

I’ll admit it. The title was to shock you. But this hyperbole does point to something… When I first discovered the Game way back in 2009 I was convinced it was the answer! And when I bought Mystery Method I was even more convinced – like a nut-job with a holy book – that it…

Letting go

It’s always good to have slogans in life, to act as anchors for good states you’ve been in, and good experiences you’ve had, so I’ll share the few that I’ve had over the years, just in case it resonates with you! 1. Fuck it This was my first revelation, the act of abandoning analysing and…

Introvert vs. Shyness

I’ve just been watching this Ted Talk about introverts. Susan Cain rightly distinguishes introverts compared to being shy. One is a character type, another is a fear of social judgement. But this issue comes up a lot in daygame and anything else designed for the extrovert (at least on the face of it). This is…

Language

Thought corrupts language, language corrupts thought. Clever man, that George Orwell. This is very true, and politicians and leaders have been riding on it for as long as they’ve been visible. With phrases like “friendly fire” (shooting your own side), “austerity measures” (we’ll cut whatever we want) and “axis of evil” (we’re the good ones)…

Feminism and confusion

Feminism is a word loaded with controversy – some see it as female domination, or ugly lesbians, or ugly straights who just can’t get a man, or moaning bitches, or they-want-equality-but-they-also-want-me-to-lift-heavy-boxes-aren’t-they-hypocrites? I for one am a feminist advocate. I think that gaining social and economic equality is a good thing. The empowerment of women helps…