Gamechanger #3: Give

Time for Gamechanger #3. This one might have been the biggest ever – this revolutionised the concept of Daygame, and made sure I never had AA in the same way ever again! This mindset is golden, and it’s also easy. Double win! This was in August 2011 – a solid year into daygame I’ve been…

Star Wars and Daygame

I’m amazed at how often, during teaching, I think about and quote from Star Wars. It might be that I watched these films 800 million times as a kid, and they are therefore my only reference point. Still, here’s how they apply… 1. “All his life has he looked away… to the future, to the…

Gamechanger #2: Willy Wisdom

Here’s the next game-changer.. a bit obvious when you think about it, or rather, when you stop thinking about it… From way back in November 2010: This I learned recently. If your brain is anything like mine, it analyses, calculates and processes all possibilities of everything and tries to deal with all outcomes of infinite…

Gamechanger #1: Just do it

Hello and welcome to a series dedicated to those lightbulb moments, those moments when something “clicked”.  I’ll be sharing 5 major gamechangers for me to hopefully encourage and inspire you. Especially those of you who are struggling, in a bad place or trough, or can’t see the light. Just keep going, and these “clicks” will…

Should I do this? Should I do that?

This is something which is never discussed in the community “When should I go in for the kiss?” “Should I kino on the date?” “Should I leave it a day before texting?” Here are some techniques: Ping texts, kino ladder, qualification, disqualification, teasing, push-pull, time constraints, takeaways, tele-shagging, leading, rewarding good behaviour, statement of interest,…

“I run out of things to say…”

I get this a lot from students… “I don’t know what to say!” Bollocks. Let me unpack that curt reply. When guys approaching say “I ran out of things to say” what they mean is that they can’t think of anything to say. What’s the difference? That’s right. “Think”. Let me unpack that. What they…

This is not how I was brought up!!

Having been in this daygame malarky for about three years, it’s taken me a couple of thousand approaches, quitting and restarting about 10 times and about 15 nice sexy experiences to realise… This is not how I was brought up! I mean, seriously, even with all my success so far in this superb hobby (and…

An awakening? Or just another dream?

I’m posting this because I want to see where I am later on, if this is a fad, if I’m deluded or mad…. This may be completely gibberish to you. That’s fine, but I’d like to see how long this lasts! Is it about game? I don’t know. It’s about everything, so it’s about game….…

Frames, frames, frames frames frames*

To be said to the tune of “dreams” by Cliff Richard* An interesting observation from a recent lesson… I was with a student and was talking a little about frame control. The more I spoke the more it reminded me of times I’ve had to have a strong frame, e.g.: – The Italian who blew…

Facing your Fears!

You hear this a lot: face your fears! fight your fears! don’t let your fears get the better of you! embrace your fears! dive head first into fears! Etc. etc. Recent interactions with students have got me thinking about what this means, and I think there is a major misconception afoot. Students have said to…